tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4735290305583110351.post4673054045877992588..comments2023-10-17T07:29:39.877-07:00Comments on Oinkstop - Adventures in Weight Loss, Divorce, and Personal Improvement: Fleeting Weight LossOinkstophttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11013692212821233387noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4735290305583110351.post-89278899740468721192007-08-16T11:49:00.000-07:002007-08-16T11:49:00.000-07:00lol...seeign one's kitty would be an accomplishmen...lol...seeign one's kitty would be an accomplishment within itself....<BR/><BR/>i responded to your comment, though if dont check back, i'm posting it here too....<BR/><BR/>"oink, we do not 'sleep' together. we are abstaining. he has his home, i have mine, we spend the nite togther maybe once a week or so.<BR/><BR/>i would not go as far as to say that he "supports" me financially, he helps out on occasion, but there is nothing getting turned off if he does not "help"...what he offers is a bit more "breathing room"<BR/><BR/>marriage has been the topic of may a discussion...rings costs money, weddings costs money, and try as he might he can not convince me to do the "courthouse thing".<BR/><BR/>i know you're not picking....i appreciate all comments as they are usually eye opening...and of course i care too much what others think of me. this is something i see within myself, though often we see things that are not very easy to change.<BR/><BR/>being together is what i want. it does make me happy. and though i care a lot of what others think, in the end i always follow my own heart on the matter.Naturally Blessedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13212011826981720568noreply@blogger.com